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becoming active, creative, competent, and responsible individuals and citizens, thus
            being a part of their identity formation. According to the school law, such character
            formation should be done in cooperation with the students’ homes.

            Relationships and Communication
               To be able to build authentic relationships, teachers need to express their interest
            in  the  students  by  asking  them  genuine  questions  connected  to  things  they  like
            and dislike. Relationships and trust are not only built in the classroom but are also
            established in corridors, in the schoolyard, and through communication channels
            such as emails and digital platforms. Conducting small, informal conversations and
            greeting students with a smile in the corridors are ways to develop good relationships
            with them. For example, asking a student about the football game last weekend or
            mentioning having read about the latest release by a certain artist to a student will
            show that one is genuinely interested in that student and his or her everyday life.
               Apart from meeting the students’ expectations on high-
            quality teaching, activities outside of ordinary classes can
            also help build relationships and provide good opportunities
            for teachers to learn more about their students. Arranging        The best teachers
            a movie night at school, going on a field trip, or simply   genuinely care about their
            doing  fun  outdoor  activities  are  examples  of  time  well
            invested  that  will  strengthen  the  relationship  between   students and connect with
            teacher  and  student  and  will  have  a  positive  impact  on
            students’ learning. The best teachers genuinely care about     them empathetically.
            their students and connect with them empathetically. Hirsh
            and Segolsson (2021) wrote:
                   What  the  students  describe  most  frequently
                   throughout  the  interviews  is  the  importance  of  a  caring  and  trustworthy
                   relationship  between  teachers  and  students.  The  best  teachers  try  to  get
                   to know their students and build relationships with them both inside and
                   outside the classroom. This, in turn, creates a classroom environment where
                   the students feel safe and comfortable to show when they do not understand
                   and where they dare to ask questions. Another aspect often referred to as
                   contributing to the feeling of a safe classroom is that teachers are forgiving:
                   the best teachers never give up on their students and there is always a second
                   chance. They do not compromise on order, rules, and clarity; rather, such
                   aspects appear to be fundamental to the safe classroom. However, students
                   describe that, in clear rules and expectations about behaviour, they feel a
                   genuinely grounded love for and concern about them. (p. 42).
            Teachers who are predictable and confident and who show good leadership skills
            are teachers whom students trust and can turn to for support. On the other hand, a
            teacher with poor leadership skills who seems insecure will instead have difficulties
            in building relationships with students.
               Interpersonal professions, such as teaching, demand knowledge about how to
            handle conflicts and problematic situations. When problems arise, the teacher plays
            an important role in teaching the students how to solve the situation in a constructive
            way. In doing so, the teacher presents the tools needed to be able to solve conflicts
            constructively in the future. Solving conflicts constructively will strengthen respect
            and relationships not only among the students but also between the students and the



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